The Nigerian Senate has been rocked by accusations and counter accusations on sexual harassment. However, the concern here is not about the veracity or otherwise of the claims amongst otherwise Distinguished Senators of the Federal Republic, Rather, it is about the alarming cases of sexual harassment in the country.
It has become a pervasive and insidious issue perpetuated by a culture of silence, shame, and victim-blaming.
The normalization of this behavior has transformed our society into one in which even high-profile women are reluctant to speak out against it, fearing repercussion and ridicule.
The reality is stark. A woman goes to the office of her boss to discuss a project, only to have him make lewd remarks or unwanted advances.
A student is touched inappropriately by a lecturer, but is too afraid to report it.
A colleague is sent explicit messages by a superior, but feels pressured to ignore it to avoid being seen as “difficult.”
When victims do summon the courage to speak out, they are often met with skepticism, hostility, and demands for “proof.” But how can you prove something that happens behind closed doors, or in a crowded bus or market?
The burden of proof is unfairly placed on the victim, while the perpetrator is protected by power, privilege, and a culture of silence.
This toxic culture has far-reaching consequences. Victims are left feeling traumatized, ashamed, and powerless. Perpetrators are emboldened, knowing they can act with impunity. And society as a whole is harmed, as talented and capable individuals are driven out of workplaces, schools, and public spaces by the pervasive fear of harassment.
It is time to challenge this culture of normalization and silence. We must create a society where victims are believed, supported, and empowered to speak out. Where perpetrators are held accountable, regardless of their power or privilege. And where everyone can live, work, and thrive without fear of harassment or abuse.”
This is not just about women, it is about building a “nation where no one is oppressed” It is about social justice for all.